You’re about to find out why I’m so “anti-game” as some of you like to call it. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with game, but as I’ve said before, I believe that it definitely should be delivered in very limited doses. I also believe that as long as you have the basics down, you really don’t need game past logistics. Game should never replace your personality, and I’m going to give you a big reason why. From talking to some of you and various other guys, most of you just want a decent girlfriend. If you’re looking for a busty girlfriend, game isn’t exactly the best tool to be using to find one. Why isn’t it? Because relationships and meeting BBW that aren’t out for just a fuck really is all about chemistry.

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In case you live in BFE and have no clue of what chemistry is, it is when you’re talking to a chubby girl and everything seems to just click and flow really smoothly between the two of you. One of the reasons why I like to lead with my humor when I approach a busty girl is because if she likes to laugh or is a humorous person herself, then we’re going to have a really fun time talking to each other. It makes no sense for you to use all of these routines and lines, trying to be someone that you’re not. Why not? Because then you have to keep up this façade the entire time. And what happens when you run out of fancy lines and routines? You’re much better off being who you are, letting chemistry develop, and occasionally throwing in a routine or smooth line if you want.

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Some of you might be thinking that you don’t exactly have the type of personality that clicks with BBW in bars, and that’s perfectly fine. Chemistry is all about easily finding common ground and having something interesting for the chubby woman to talk to you about. Having common personalities isn’t the same thing as having something interesting to talk about, although either or can make for good chemistry. How exactly do you create chemistry if you don’t exactly have the type of personality that makes BBW immediately want to get to know you? You already know that it has something to do with having something interesting to talk about, but how do you exercise some control over how successfully you’ll develop chemistry with most busty women? The answer is simple: talk to plus size women in places where you know that it’s going to be easy for you to find common ground.

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For example, I’m into just about any kind of theater. Where would it be easy for me to find BBW that I’m going to find common ground and have interesting conversations with? CAPA, theater groups, or any place where there is some kind of play going on. If I start talking to BBW in those places, there is a very good chance that I’m going to click with a few of the oversized women there. Now some of you are going to list videogames, sports, or computers as your interests. That’s fine and all, but let’s be honest, you’re not going to find very many chubby female prospects in any event or group related to them. Does this mean that there is no hope? Not at all. It just means that you’ll have to broaden your horizons. It’s what I do all of the time.

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Any time that I find something interesting, I research it more, and if I like it, I partake in some kind of activity or group related to it. For example, I realized that I liked art. In turn, educated myself about it, and I started going to various art festivals. This opened up an entire pool of women for me to have a very natural chemistry with. You can do the same. When I’m talking to BBW, my friends will often see that I have a very naturals chemistry with a lot of them. Why is that so? Because over the years, I’ve become involved in more and more activities, and started attending more and more events as a result of me expanding my horizons. Over time, this knowledge and various passions have allowed me to very easily develop chemistry with women of all kinds of backgrounds and make-ups. If you’re looking for a girlfriend, and I know that most of you are, then the chemistry route is probably the best route to take.

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